Celibate! (One night stands, and ways to seduce all those around you in various ways)

[Spiffing Cheese]

You guys are missing the point. If you'd rather have sex with someone you love, good for you. I waited until I found someone I loved, too. But if you're going to condemn others who do have one night stands and call their actions immoral, then there should be a better reason than "I don't feel like doing it."

Exactly; call one-night stands wrong if you want to but it'd be nice to know why people think that.

[Avarice-ness]

!! you're giving birth to Jesus O_O Erm, Jesus-ette?

xD She's gonna be the best jesus EVER.

[Caraliz]

I used to hate sex and being intimate with boys until I was about 18 and I met someone I thought I was in love with. Yep.

[Faris]

I am a virgin.

On the topic of "waiting for some one you love". Personally I think I would regret it if I did not wait for some one I love to be my first.

[BardTard]

Nope. Everybody in my family thinks I am though, except for my sister. I should have waited though, cus I think I was too young.

[Tallulah]

Haven't been a virgin for nigh on 3 years, now

[Goldenboko]

I'm pure.

Sex is meaningless to me unless you actually care about the person you're having it with.

I agree. I'd rather not have my first time be with someone I picked just to get laid.

[Blue Harvest]

To clear things up, when I say love I don't mean someone you're dating and want to marry. My definition covers good friends, and because of that I'd totally do some of my friends. When I said I haven't done it because I want to do it with someone I love, it's because the few opportunities I've had were with people I barely knew, one of whom was stalking me.

Hey Simon, wanna have a 1 night stand?

Sure thing babe

[Jiro]

To clear things up, when I say love I don't mean someone you're dating and want to marry. My definition covers good friends, and because of that I'd totally do some of my friends. When I said I haven't done it because I want to do it with someone I love, it's because the few opportunities I've had were with people I barely knew, one of whom was stalking me.

Yeah, my thoughts too . I think I may have said something up top to make people angry. My personal opinion is that I waited for someone I loved. If others choose not to, that's there choice. I don't mind in the slightest.

[Breine]

I guess it would depend on someones definition of what "going all the way" is.

I clicked no anyways.

Not a virgin equals penetration in my opinion, so doing a little sucky sucky still makes you a virgin.

What about lesbians then?

Anyway, I'm not a virgin.

Oh Breine, lesbains aren't people!

Oh I see xD

[Misfit]

Anyway, sex is sex and sex is GOOOD~ So enjoy it, kids!

lol kids.

[Vyk]

I was a late bloomer, but I eventually got there.

Not a virgin here. Doesn't really make much difference to my life.

^Me

Does it even count if she just lays there after begging for it for so long? Basically all I did was have sex with a warm mannequin :(

For this I can't completely condone waiting, because I did, and it was a bust. She immediately cheated after she got what she wanted

Good luck to those who wait. Personally I didn't exactly wait on purpose though xD There were those I woulda loved to have sex with. But supposedly we were too good of friends for anything serious. So nyeh

Only thing I can say against having sex with people you don't love is that it might just be you. If you have sex with someone who loves you, be prepared for the consequinces

[Spiffing Cheese]

The way I see it is if you're a virgin the first time you have sex with the person you love, it's kinda gonna suck.

[Vyk]

The way I see it is if you're a virgin the first time you have sex with the person you love, it's kinda gonna suck.

Counter-point is if they love you back then you're not so worried about them condemning you for not being "good". And give you a learning grace period

But that's also why I did everything else first. Which actually kinda backfired when she was suddenly mad at me for lying about being a virgin when I was supposedly so good at other things. Though now that I've been down all the paths I can say that its a lot easier to hit all the right buttons with parts of your anatomy you can control a lot better (hands/mouth) than a certain other member which the rest of your body has to make up for. Too many things to concentrate on at once. So of course a rookie's gonna suck. In love or not

[~*~Celes~*~]

The way I see it is if you're a virgin the first time you have sex with the person you love, it's kinda gonna suck.

Actually, if you truly love the person, you won't care that it's awkward...You'll enjoy yourself anyway, because you're with that person, you love them, and you're able to learn together. It will still feel good even though it's awkward, and you'll find that you and your partner are laughing about the awkwardness the whole time, not really caring because you're with that special someone, and that's all that matters to you. The look in their eyes as they hover above you will be enough to set your soul afire and the way he kisses you and whispers your name will only keep that fire burning brighter and brighter.

That's mine and my boyfriend's experience, anyway.