Have you ever asked someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife? If so, what was it like?
Have you ever asked someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife? If so, what was it like?
I like Kung-Fu.
Usually it goes something like this.
"I like you."
"I like you too."
"Go out with me?"
"No."
"Oh. How about now?"
"No."
"Oh. How about now?"
"Oh okay then."
Well it's always awkward when it comes from my mouth.
Yes. It has gone well and not so well depending on the occasion in question.
Yes I have!
edit: it was terrifying
I went to my girlfriend's homecoming with her. We weren't dating officially until about halfway through when she announced we were "basically boyfriend and girlfriend now" to all of her friends.
This was, of course, surprising to me.
I HATE FORMALITIES . HATE HATE HATE
All of my hookups and girlfriends have been a straightforward affair. Even my first girlfriend. I put my arm around her one day when we were watching tv and that night we were holding hands.
Her cousin (who was a fan of our relationship unlike everybody including myself) was ecstatic. Ah, old memories.
Yeah, typically, I just act natural and if it succeeds she's cool. If not, I wouldn't find her my type anyway. It's a straightforward s-test.
I've done it a few times, and each was a varying degree of 'sux' and/or 'awkward'.
I've never asked a guy out in my life, I think. I'd have no problem doing so, but it's never come up as they've always asked me out first.
I have been asked out and never done the asking. Asking my ex to marry me was pretty anti climatic too. This is why I phail.
This is why a guy should reach down deep inside his chest, and pull out every peiece of being he has, lay it all out on table and just swing that damn club and bring her back to your cave.
Chivalry really is dead. Pimp it Flintstones style.
Asking someone to be your girlfriend or boyfriend is pretty lame. The two people should know when the relationship gets to that place.
Uh.. it started with him hinting to me that he wanted to be with me and it going over my head, then when I did get it, I rejected him because I was scarred, and then a week later and lots of alcohol later I called him crying confessing everything that was confess. We started dating exactly a year before our baby's due date (Sept. 6th).. well. technically Sept 5th at like 11pm but since I don't remember that convo because of alcohol we just call it Sept 6th. Saying the words "I love you with all my being" was really the moment of dating, there never really was "will you date me" thing.
As for marriage, we both knew that we were going to get married to each other 2 months into dating. There was no doubt in either of our minds that we wanted to be together forever, Neither of us asked each other, it was more like "When we get married.." and what not. Really, if it wasn't for procrastinating we would have been married in November before I even got pregnant but we complicated things by.. well my dad not even knowing he was living with me, and his parents under the impression he was living with a friend. > >; So when we found out that we were going to have a baby we stopped procrastinating the marriage for the sake of the baby. xD It's not that we didn't want to get married, we were both to lazy too. We lived like a married couple, it just took so much effort to get the actual married title to become true.
As for those skeptics who think that you can't know that you want to be together forever after 2 months of knowing someone. I can vouch that I knew, and my sister, who's been happily married for almost 11 years knew after 2 months. Some people just know, but then again my sister and I have epic intuition.