I should have been gay...

[Big D]

edit: I'd also like to point out that "buttsex" doesn't define gay sex as some of you seem to think~ Many gay men don't have anal sex at all.

I'm glad there are some people out there who actually get that. "How can you be bi if you won't have sex with men?" It's ridiculous. It just happens to be the something I would never ever do.

I'm curious... for people who are attracted to both genders, but who aren't at all interested in sexual relations with one gender - how does that impact on their relationships and attractions with people of that gender? I'm aware that buttsex isn't the end-all and be-all of male same-sex intimacy, of course, but I'm still interested to learn how people reconcile an attraction to a person with an absence of sexual desire for them.