Quote Originally Posted by enano View Post
As for your personal problem, remember they are your parents. They will understand in the end. And while they might not agree with you, I doubt they won't be at least understanding. So good luck with that.

Also, if it really conflicts with their views, maybe they can give you further information as to why they disagree and/or disapprove of whatever decision you are making. Not necessarily to make you change your mind. But more to warn you of the potential problems with your descisions. So you may be prepared if something may go wrong.

Now for the topic:
In the end, I'd just go with my instincts on any necessary explinations. If I feel strongly enough in the decision I make, I would give the respect to inform my family, and not be ashamed in the decision.

We all do things our parents would not approve of at some point in our lives. But for me, you always will live and learn, but don't be afraid to listen to the advice of people who have lived and care for you.
Thank you so much for your words, nano. That gave me a little more courage. Sometimes I do feel like I'd want to talk to them either way, even though I never talked to them about personal stuff that much in the past. But sometimes I question if the decision is worth it (even though I'm very certain) - that if it isn't worth it for some reason and I talk to them about it anyway, then those are hurtful words uncalled for *sigh*