I'm not sure if this topic belongs here, but I guess if it's removed then that's answered.
Anyway, I'm in a very difficult time in my life right now. I've made a decision which I've been thinking about for far too long now (years and years) which is about something that I don't know how to approach about to my parents. I've talked with my siblings about it (that was hard enough) and it's a kind of a relief I have their support, but I greatly respect my parents and I'm really scared that after I tell them what my decision is about, they'll basically hate me and sort of "leave" me. And I couldn't live with that because I love them too much. But I've made up my mind and all I'm hoping for is that they'll respect it and keep loving me anyway.
Why do I think they'll hate me? Simply because, in my opinion (which, of course, could be dead wrong for all I know) this decision of mine has the nature of the complete opposite of what my parents view on life is, what they think is of value. Almost a complete opposite.
I didn't create a new topic here to discuss my problem in itself, but rather to get some idea of: what you would do if you were faced with letting the people you love about a certain decision you've made, which you know will have a great impact on them? A decision you won't change for no one but you still want to keep the respect/love/bond between you and yours?
What would you say to them, what would you do? Would you make some careful planning, practice a good speech prior so you'll choose the right words to say when it's time? Or just let it come off by heart? How would you start off, how do you begin?
Please, I need some advice
I don't know how to begin...