All I was trying to do was to say "Please be careful Zeldy with your very occasional cigarettes because it can be dangerous" without going "OMG NEVER EVER SMOKE AGAIN NAO OR ELSE YOU WILL DIE 4EVA YOU'RE MAKING A TERRIBLE NASTY MISTAKE WHICH WILL HAUNT YOU FOR ALL YOUR LIFE" - because what she has going AT THE MINUTE isn't going that way. And she's smart, she knows all the risks, me ASSDLNDLBEFIONOOOOOOOOing her wouldn't do her any good.

So I see nothing wrong with what I've said so far, BoB.