This first thread explains all of that. Please read it. It's not about being good or bad. It's a legal thing. God legally cannot let anything that is not perfect into heaven. Since we can't be perfect, we are all damned, but Jesus WAS perfect and gave His life on the cross to die in our place so that God could accept us. All we have to do is accept what Jesus Christ did for us on the cross as payment for our sins and we will be forgiven. It's an awesome deal.
You don't have to be baptized to be saved. If you can't get baptized at this time, it won't damn you to hell. Not placing your faith in Jesus Christ will.
Please take the time to read this first post and pray that prayer to God at the bottom of it if you haven't yet.
We are all sinners. If you repent and turn to Jesus Christ for salvation, He will save you. He loves us all.
You don't HAVE to suffer at all if you will simply accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Why not accept Him?
Please don't post multiple times in a row. Use the edit/delete function if you have more to say. Thanks! - Psychotic