I was saying its good to be forceful with people to get them to contribute. Though if you just used a bad word to describe what you though, that makes sense.

Though you might just be saying that to cover yourself at this point, can never be too sure.

And DD, WTF? Don't apologize. BE forceful. DEMAND answers. Don't back down because people don't like you saying crap. Dolt deserved everything that was thrown at him, as does everyone else who gets crap thrown at them.

Not that I think you said anything particularly useful, but thats beside the point.