Okay so in light of me being intoxicated at 4 pm because of sake...(it was 20.1% and i didnt know till it was too late)

Its my birthday on the tenth and i had to tell my boyfriend that i DO NOT want any part in planning it. I've always had to plan outings we have and i want it to be the one day i dont!

What have your bday's been like and do you usually plan out your events?