I did this last christmas.Originally Posted by Psychotic
I did this last christmas.
Just search her house for pictures of her ex-boyfriends to even out.
How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are. As for mementoes of the past, sure keep them...I mean who doesn't? Even though I haven't spoken to Twisted Tinkerbell since shortly after we split and I haven't really "missed" her as such I have mementoes of our time together, every cinema stub ect it's in a scrap book along with cinema stubbs and gig tickets from all kinds of trips out with friends or other past girlfriends. I suspect my girlfriend has some momentoes of her past somewhere too. The difference is I never mention them and never really let her go through them even if I am feeling nostalgic about times in college and since then. She knows my momentoes of being with her are in the same place, she's seen pictures of me with my ex on facebook where people have tagged the photos I just don't ever act like a dumb ass when she asks me if I miss my ex at all I just tell her, why would I miss my ex when I have her? and things like that. Remember, lies hurt people no matter the intent behind the lie, if you're in a position where the knowledge will hurt but a lie will hurt as much if not more then just simply don't tell them unless you have no choice. What people do not know cannot hurt them and what they need not know should not be known. I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful and they don't need to know so I keep it quiet it's better this way.
Hmm... I wonder if I should worry about females being over reactive...
I tend to keep pictures of anything I enjoyed in the past and I quite frequently view them. I still have a graduation card from a friend of mine from 2005 as well as some pictures from that time and before. She was a good friend and I entirely plan to keep said items for as long as I can(as stated I still view them fairly often).
Also I don't hide things. So a GF of mine would probably run across all sorts of things from the past. My room is my den. Don't want to see my past, stay the hell out(though my den is so cluttered you would be lucky to find anything specific).
Though "Aww, are your silly female emotions playing tricks on you? I'm with you now, so get over it." is quite improper and should rightly result in an angry retort from your lady friend.
STILL Updating the anime list. . . I didn't think I was that much of an anime freak! I don't even want to consider updating the manga list!
Well played, Doc. Well played indeed.
PS: You fail at basic Human interaction. I retract my statement from your previous thread about your girlfriend being unreasonable want you to cut this stuff up. You're clearly pretty regularly making her feel inferior to your ex(es) and are entirely unable to recognize why it's upsetting to someone to hear what you've been telling your girlfriend.
And yeah, you should be more over her than this, to be honest. I've got an ex who I was very in love with, and who I had a lot of great times with, but there'd be something seriously wrong with my current relationship if I thought about that very much in the way you do.
Eh, ease her into it. Just start randomly taking pictures of her when she's eating breakfast, solving the crossword puzzle, watching TV etc. When she asks you what you're doing, reply: Just something to remember you by.
Should do the trick
...damn
How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are...I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful
Last edited by Ledious; 12-07-2008 at 10:24 PM.
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Once a month is wayyyy too much. You ARE with your current girlfriend. You can keep your ex's stuff, but seriously, keep your mind on the here and the now. And the way you treated her wasn't exactly nice. Kind of un-boyfriend-ly. You're being unreasonable, and some of what you said struck me as pretty cruel.
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I can't imagine what I would do if my husband were sighing over old love letters from someone else at least once a month. I don't even mind that he's still friends with one of his old girlfriends, but fondly going through old love letters on a regular basis? Damn.
You deserve a fat dumping. Especially after that last comment.
Well Ledious there is perhaps a good reason why I am not going to say the "it's better this way" part is very important to the second stripped quote there. I am generally a very blunt honest person, I don't beat around the bushes I just out and say things. In this situation with the person who I work with my general attitude won't fly, because this person is my manager. I would however much I dislike them, like to keep my job because well 1) income is important and 2) I actually like the job....damn
How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are...I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful
You can't dislike someone and care about their feelings at the same time.Well Ledious there is perhaps a good reason why I am not going to say the "it's better this way" part is very important to the second stripped quote there. I am generally a very blunt honest person, I don't beat around the bushes I just out and say things. In this situation with the person who I work with my general attitude won't fly, because this person is my manager. I would however much I dislike them, like to keep my job because well 1) income is important and 2) I actually like the job....damn
How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are...I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful
"Tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful"
"I would however much I dislike them"
Just um, clear'n thatup for ya.
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streme Wheelie
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You could've lied and just agreed when she said "old friend". I'm not saying that's right, but it's an option. But... that's one big hole you've dug yourself there, best of luck digging back up
Bud your supposed to get rid of eberything that the new G/F can see. I do not do this i am a little with ya why get rid of past memories. Listen i understand where the girl is coming from it will make anyone mad. Life is short and long at the same time memories is all anyone has in this world. when your 70 you want to remeber everything there will be days that will be forgotten why not remeber them. he is not a jerk ok, ya he could have been more subbtle haha but its his life an entire life not what is going on over the last 5 years......everyone is allowed to make memories.....but for future context maybe be nicer girls come and go but the great ones you want to remeber
Don't be surprised if you end up single in the not-so-distant future.
Have you told her she's fat and ugly yet? Makes the girls go crazy.
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