Quote Originally Posted by Iceglow View Post
Quote Originally Posted by Ledious View Post
Quote Originally Posted by Iceglow View Post
How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are. As for mementoes of the past, sure keep them...I mean who doesn't? Even though I haven't spoken to Twisted Tinkerbell since shortly after we split and I haven't really "missed" her as such I have mementoes of our time together, every cinema stub ect it's in a scrap book along with cinema stubbs and gig tickets from all kinds of trips out with friends or other past girlfriends. I suspect my girlfriend has some momentoes of her past somewhere too. The difference is I never mention them and never really let her go through them even if I am feeling nostalgic about times in college and since then. She knows my momentoes of being with her are in the same place, she's seen pictures of me with my ex on facebook where people have tagged the photos I just don't ever act like a dumb ass when she asks me if I miss my ex at all I just tell her, why would I miss my ex when I have her? and things like that. Remember, lies hurt people no matter the intent behind the lie, if you're in a position where the knowledge will hurt but a lie will hurt as much if not more then just simply don't tell them unless you have no choice. What people do not know cannot hurt them and what they need not know should not be known. I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful and they don't need to know so I keep it quiet it's better this way.
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How dumb are you seriously? Your asshole attitude means you deserve to be single and to have every girl in your country let alone town know what kind of stupid ass you are
I could tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful
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Well Ledious there is perhaps a good reason why I am not going to say the "it's better this way" part is very important to the second stripped quote there. I am generally a very blunt honest person, I don't beat around the bushes I just out and say things. In this situation with the person who I work with my general attitude won't fly, because this person is my manager. I would however much I dislike them, like to keep my job because well 1) income is important and 2) I actually like the job.
You can't dislike someone and care about their feelings at the same time.
"Tell a person who I work with what I think of them but it's hurtful"
"I would however much I dislike them"
Just um, clear'n thatup for ya.