Guys around here tend to be pigs so saying no to their adamant demands for a dinner date is the best thing to do.
Then i met Eric when i was done with guys (they pissed me off too much) so i acted like a douche bag on our first date. He basically had to bug the hell out of me to get me to meet him. I called him queer and made fun of his hair cut. But he caught on that it was ironic humor and he laughed, which made me laugh. We've never been apart since that day.