Somebody's got a GIRLFRIEND! :P

[mooglebunni608]

I hope ><

So one of my friends plans to ask a girl out at a party this weekend.

He's kind of agonizing over this; Should he ask her at the beginning of the party, so if she says yes, they can cuddle and hang out and dance together the entire time, or should he ask her out when the party ends, so if she says no, there won't be much time spent on awkwardness?

Personally I want him to ask her out first thing, because there would be so many cute photo opportunities, but if she says no I'm going to have to hide him for the rest of the time.

And to give this thread more of a topic; How do you/would you ask somebody out? Do you wait for them to make a move? Over the phone or in person? On AIM? Tell me!

[Rye]

I like to ask people in person. I've only asked one person out, though. I'm usually asked by far. And it's usually over IMs. No one usually ever has the guts to ask me in person.

[Agrias]

Guys around here tend to be pigs so saying no to their adamant demands for a dinner date is the best thing to do.
Then i met Eric when i was done with guys (they pissed me off too much) so i acted like a douche bag on our first date. He basically had to bug the hell out of me to get me to meet him. I called him queer and made fun of his hair cut. But he caught on that it was ironic humor and he laughed, which made me laugh. We've never been apart since that day.

[Rocket Edge]

I've only ever asked in person, but I think i've always had the good help of alcohol on my side.

[Rantz]

Don't tell scrumpleberry but I am currently gathering rose petals to arrange on a silk spread on her bed, spelling "MARRY ME PLZ Y/N?".

[Denmark]

You should change your custom title from "Merry Rantzien" to "Marry Rantzien".

This thread makes me remember that I cockblocked myself twice this weekend. Oh well.

Ummm I really don't think I can add to the discussion! I shall be off.

[Levian]

Haha, I was in the exact same situation last Saturday, and I decided to go with near the end of the night. What happened was that the girl got faced, passed out, lost her shoe, vomited on my toilet and a bit on herself, passed out again on my bathroom floor and had to be driven home.

and now she's going to south america for three months. Oh well.

[Madame Adequate]

Ask at the start, unless there's only a really small handful of people there.

@ Rye: eye wuz skar'd ;;

[Zeldy]

I've only ever been asked, I'd never do the asking xD

This lad once asked me out and later told me that I'm the first girl he's had the guts to ask out in person, usually using text or msn, I was like aww xD

[Bunny]

Hm.. I have asked out somewhere between 15-20 people and I don't recall any of them turning me down. Confidence and knowledge works, I guess.

[black orb]

>>> Girls should be the ones who ask the guys out, I think girls have less chances of getting a negative answer..

[Araciel]

I just club them on the head then drag them to my cave. If that's not a good enough indication, I'm all out of ideas.

[Aerith's Knight]

I've only ever asked in person, but I think i've always had the good help of alcohol on my side.

This.

Trust the force alcohol, young padawan. xD

[Jess]

I have no problem with asking a guy out..but I've never actually had to. Somehow, I've been lucky in that the guys that I've liked have always asked me out before I've got the chance.

[Gwawr]

Cheery and outgoing as I usually am, I'm painfully shy around men. I've never asked one out, and I wouldn't know where to start. I just wait until they decide they like me.