Thinking about getting one, not sure which. Been contemplating a monroe again, or maybe that piercing that's on the skin (cartilage?) part that covers your ear canal. I forgot what they're called, but they're technically surface piercings and not ear piercings.

Right now I have 4 holes in one ear and two in the other. They pretty much have grown in because I don't wear earrings ever, but if I feel like it, then I could probably put them in again. And I have my cartilage pierced but I really haven't worn anything there in yeaaaaaaars. My ears are really sensitive and I can only wear real gold otherwise they get all pus ridden and swollen. And I always lose earrings. *shame*

I'd probably get a tattoo faster than a piercing though.

As for the opposite gender, yes, piercings are hot within reason! It usually depends on the person with the piercing. I don't like guys with ear piercings at all usually, though. But other piercings, like lip, eyebrow, or septum are awesome. I also don't like it when someone goes completely overboard with piercings. Or tattoos for that matter.

Tattoos are hot too. :o As long as they're not those tribal tattoos or anything :o