I can't ASK a girl it's like

so
what
do you want to do?

girl thinks: "what the hell he doesn't know what he wants to do and is asking me??"

girl says: "um..whatever you want to do"

girl thinking: "maybe he's just messing around"


Bad idea to ask her directly, but not bad to ask eoff! This is the basis of my post.

Yay Sagensyg understands me. I have effectively caused a debuff to his int stat.

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WHAT THE HELL DOES THIS MEAN
I'm implying that I can't treat this girl like the girls I'm used to. IE I can't ask her to go clubbing and can just call her up and say 'hey can I 'come over' ?'

Get it? While I can treat her no differently than other girls I have to treat her differently than other girls because she's asian and not dumb and likes animu and mango.