Dating sites are pretty stupid imho. I mean sure ok so some people claim they don't have the time to go meet girls/guys whatever the hell they like dating...monkeys and dogs included. I believe it's a case of if you truly want to be with someone you'll MAKE time to go meet people and socialise and meet someone. Especially when you're still quite young. I'm currently working 7 days a week (again...HMV are dicks and I've got a few issues to sort) most weeks. I have 2 jobs both of them primarily make me work in evening hours, 1 finishes at an early 21:00 latest finish. The other in a restaurant can end at 01:00 or even 02:00 Most of my weekends are in the restaurant so I don't get to go out until 20:30 or later on a Friday and not at all really on a Saturday or Sunday. I went out and met a girl still. Ok so I lie I met Ewa before I worked 2 jobs, both evenings and 7 nights a week. However since I started these hours I've been out with friends and managed to get girls interested in me enough to ask me to go grab coffee with them sometimes. I've even managed to get given numbers of girls when I'm serving them and once in HMV I ended up with a girl I left a suitable impression on going to the extent of tracking me down on facebook to find me and get in contact. If I have found time to get girls interested whether or not I have acted on those interests I am sure there is time for EVERYONE to go find someone. If you can't find someone who likes you then I am not so sure it's them or a lack of time it's the vibes/feelings you give off and that you make people feel about you.