Exes, E-mails, and wtf.

[Giggles]

I've recently received and e-mail from an ex-boyfriend of 3+ years ago! He says that he harbors no ill feelings toward me and hopes that the feeling is mutual.

But wait! HE was the one that lied and cheated. Not me. So...why did he ever harbor ill feelings toward me at all? Did I make him become the horrible bastard he was to me? He's apologizing three years too late! If he's really apologizing at all.

The fact is, he's ceased to exist in my thoughts and life so I couldn't care less. Just a bizarre moment that I will soon forget.

Have any of you had e-mail/phone/run-into experiences with past significant others? How did it go? Were you the cheating bastard apologizing too late? These run-ins can be very interesting! So please share.

[NeoTifa]

Hmm, I was playing L4D yesterday and my ex-faincé messaged me via steam to tell me he was joining the Air Force... :\

[Dolentrean]

No ex's to deal with, but I did have an interesting conversation with an old flame. It was three years after the fact, and it was interesting seeing what had changed over those years. But for me at least, I got closure on the whole situation.

[Mirage]

I thought this thread was about *.exe files in e-mails. I was greatly disappointed.

[Freya]

Haha yeah an ex of mine commented on my myspace earlier this week and has been texting me. And he was starting random drama. I was just like, "LEAVE ME ALONE! All you ever do is say mean and hurtful things anytime you contact me. Stop texting me stop contacting me leave me alone."

Had to block him. It was very annoying. His new girlfriend hates me and so she's been telling him random stuff about me that she's made up that he finds he needs to yell at me for.

Boys are stupid. lol

[SomethingBig]

Oh wow, this is a crazy coincidence. I was bogged down by drama with this girl for the latter half of '08. I have since broken all communications with her, but we're not on bad terms, or anything. I've been thinking about her a lot this summer and even saw her at a park and it took my best friend threatening our friendship to keep me from talking to her (which was and still is for the best). Tonight, there's a very high chance that I'm going to see her at a mutual friend's birthday party. I don't know what I'll do, but I guess I'll report back later!

With your ex, Gigs, I'd say that if he was the cheater and he thinks that he has something to forgive you for, then there's a good chance that in the 3 years you've been broken up, he hasn't grown up. It shows that he really hasn't considered what you went through he put you through with his actions. Perhaps it is best to stay away.

Boys are stupid.

OH YEAH?! Well girls smell bad!

[NeoTifa]

Why would you want .exe files in emails? Wouldn't that be a bad thing?

[Freya]

roffle I just got another myspace messgae from an old flame from like jr high. COINCIDENCE? I think not.

Stupid myspace.

[SomethingBig]

Not if it's porn.exe.

[NeoTifa]

What if it was a virtual STD virus labeled porn.exe?

[SomethingBig]

You mean like virtual chlamydia? What dastardly villain would pervert porn.exe?

[Sephex]

Last Saturday my very first ex that I dated back in 2001/2002 came out with a couple of friends of mine to a bar. We all got plastered and had a good time.

[Giggles]

With your ex, Gigs, I'd say that if he was the cheater and he thinks that he has something to forgive you for, then there's a good chance that in the 3 years you've been broken up, he hasn't grown up. It shows that he really hasn't considered what you went through he put you through with his actions. Perhaps it is best to stay away.

You're so right Big! I mean, it made me realize how far past that I've come in the last three years. I don't feel upset that he e-mailed me, I don't feel...anything. I just really couldn't care less because I've moved so far beyond that. And obviously he didn't get closure on the way he treated me and ended our relationship! Ha! It's just so weird!

ps: Goodluck with your ex at the party!!

[Bunny]

Boys are stupid.

Girls are probably more retarded.

I've often thought about going back and telling all of my exes that I was sorry for being such a huge dick to them, getting them hooked on crack and telling them that their best friend is far-and-away hotter than they will ever be. Then I remember that I'm too awesome to apologize for something that was true.

[The Last Oath]

My ex from last year always seems to run into me. For example, I've never been to my brothers uni, but a while back I went there at night to help him do some computer crap.

We walked into the megalab and I hear someone say my name, I turn around and I saw her face. ohhh i thought L.O.L