I never understood the female lust for adventure, especially during harder times. I can understand BJ's take on the situation I think. I mean you're jobless, and about to become homeless. Unless you have awesome well set and helpful families, he's probably thinking "ok we're about to start living in our cars and gas will be hard enough to afford, let alone the thousands of dollars for an -adventure-!"

The idea of an adventure sounds exciting to pretty much everyone. But us practical minded people need more than just a pipe dream to drop everything and do it. 'Cause with your situation, the last thing you want to have happen is get stranded somewhere with no options and wind up in a shelter

But if you have a few thousand dollars set back for just such an occasion then by all means, slap some sense into him and good luck on your adventure and I wish you the best

The girls I've known that basically wanted to be traveling hobos never had a real plan, let alone the finances available to do anything better

My first girlfriend and longest relationship so far was a very intelligent girl that had every intention of just living lightly and spending 6 months in a country and then packing up and moving to the next. She took a course that would eventually send her to Japan to teach english as a second language to guarantee her a start on the trip. I needed a bit more security and planning. 'Cause the last thing I want is to wind up stranded in a country I couldn't ask for help in for anything and probably wind up homeless there all because she had a thirst for adventure. So I broke up with her to not hold her back. And she still lives in the same place she did when I met her. The want for adventure didn't pay for her needs to get the job done

So again. I hope you have finances and a plan. And good luck