Don't waste this time on the continent, Shlup, get the hell out of here! I wouldn't even recommend New York for an adventure, get out of the country while you have the opportunity.

Do like David Sedaris did when he needed a change of scene with his boyfriend when he was trying to quit smoking, and live in Japan for 3-6 months. Not trying to wapanese it up, but it's a good idea.

That, or live in Germany. I want to live in Germany one day, at least for a little while.

I dunno if you're looking for English speaking or not. But the idea of just being dropped into a country in which I can't even speak the language with another person you love is kind of a sexy idea to me. You're kind of helpless, but in the most fun of ways. It's a bit of a turn on, for some reason.

If you come to England though, I can hang out with YOU every single day too. Don't worry about how I'll be outside your window and Paul's at the same time. I'll be there like shareware.