No Choice
Agreed, this time at least, a Ultimatum was worthy.
Basically, if your at your wits end, and you've tried talking and you've done everything else you can think of, then by all means you will have to use the U word.
P.S: Who did change it to Ultimata.
I've given them to girlfriends before, but over more important things. For example, I won't go out with someone who smokes. I've been given ultimatums before, including one where a girlfriend told me to stop all contact with a friend because she thought I liked her in some kind of passionate/romatic sense, which I didn't. I told the girlfriend I wouldn't cut contact, if I recall correctly. Our relationship ended about a month or two later, but oh well. Jealousy can be a terrible thing when it's unjustified, but if it's justified, then you should either talk it out or leave them so uh, there you go?
Bow before the mighty Javoo!
mrm
what you should have done there BoB is instead of saying "No I won't cut contact", say "Under No circumstances have I ever had any romantic flings etc with her. But perhaps I could see her maybe a bit less often"
Im no expert, but I would have done that.
Of course, if your girlfriend was a total jerk, then you should have cut contact with HER.
No one's ever given me an ultimatum before, I think, in a relationship. I think that's either because I don't do things, or because I wouldn't listen to an ultimatum.
Yeah I really doubt you'd take heed of it if I did, except to be mad at meOriginally Posted by Rye
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