Post Secret Revelation Time

[rubah]

I never got people who even considered abortion without so much as telling the father that you plan to kill his baby. Not judging, just saying I don't understand it.

This.

I don't even know how angry I'd be if it happened to me. Not wanting to raise the kid, fine, but abortion without even mentioning it?

if you weren't copulating with the intent of procreating, I don't see why you would have to know. Except for the "oops, you smurfed up" informing factor. If it bothers you that badly, just find another girl to knock up.

I can see it in terms of "oh we're so close and I tell you everything", but idk, I don't get that impression from the secret