Whatever gender of my child that I bear along with my soulmate I will show equal love to, because an offspring is still an offspring regardless. It's mundane to focus upon having a boy or a girl to best suit your own desires, what about the child? That is what matters most, gender should play no part in what is created for life to continue your legacy as it flows through the river of life. That is what you should always love because it is your treasure to hold sacred to. Take care of it no matter how imperfect it is for you because that baby will love you unconditionally, don't show animosity towards it just because it isn't the gender you prefered or that it isn't what you want your child to be for it isn't a petty treasure for you to mock. Thus, be gentle and be compassionate. Be eager to embrace the love. Don't shun or take your baby for granted for it will only cause pain. Be swift in judgment before you act upon your baby and make a pact with it and vow to always be there for it and not to harm it. Be intimate with it. Make it your top priority. Treat your baby preciously, hold it deep within yourself and examine your heart, mind, and spirit, and love most pure will follow indeed.