Important

[Anaralia]

My daughter comes first and above all. My self preservation comes after that, and my husband's well being as well. Then comes everything else.

and that i understand it's a mother's obligation to take care of their child

but the reason i i take care of myself first is because i have no strong family ties

Oh I so totally understand. Before I had my kid I didn't have any strong family ties either, and I'm still distant from my family, outside of my very immediate three-person ring.

No judging here.