Unfortunately I don't own an xbox but I do know how annoying that is when you're playing a game online. I've played several online games and I'll get this from guy players too - Even when I've tried to make my character look as unattractive as possible >.>

Sure, I don't mind when other players want to help - but sometimes it does seem like certain people see a girl player and they instantly think 'OH my GOD! A girl player! She obviously can't play as well as us GUYS can! Lets go help and maybe I'll get something in return!', I mean seriously, girls can play games just as well as any guy could. Then there's the guy player that seems to stalk you EVERYWHERE you go - That is annoying as hell.

Sometimes I just make my character a guy to avoid this, and most of the time (As long as they don't find out you're a girl) it does work.

But yes, it does annoy me sometimes =/