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Reaction: AAAAAHHH! GAWDDAMMNIT!!! OOOUUUUCHH!!!!
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*reads intense debate about key/lock metaphor*
Reaction: ...wait, is this really the same thread? =O
I suppose I could just respond to this with something you said yourself: It's true that there's a biological instinct, trying to tell us what to do. But thanks to the very same brain that allows us to "fly" and "defeat strength-wise superior predators", we also have the ability/option to defy the biological logic when it comes to picking partners.
For a quick example, it has happened me twice that I've turned down a woman for the sole reason that I felt no "mental/emotional" attraction for her. That's a choice which I, according to your biological logic, shouldn't be allowed to make as a man since my sole goal should be "spreading the seed".
The biological instincs give us a certain direction, but we DO have enough brains to pick and walk another direction if we wish to do so. I'm a man, and I'm a very selective one at that. I don't consider "spreading the seed" my main objective.
...all this seriousness feels too serious, so here's some tentacles: :tpg:
Mmmm, tentacles.