you're considered a weakling if you express concern about the well being of others or disclose too much about your personal life...

I don't want to upset Psychotic by naming any of those other websites/forums/as he doesn't want us to say anything negative about other sites...
I know that from personal experience from being a member of those sites before I came here..so I'll pass on saying anything...

Except to say it's safer under most circumstances to keep your personal life issues/feelings/cares and concerns to yourself...