Having read the books myself, I agree that she seems to give the impression that girls should go for the ones that treat you like crap. Girls that are 12 years old are reading her stuff, and they're going to want a story just like Edward and Bella's, so of course they're going to follow it word-for-word. It's just like the Disney movies from back in the day (though I still love them with a passion <3), if girls aren't smart enough to realize that it's all just a fairy tale and real life isn't going to work out that way, they will have high expectations that will never be met. No relationship is ever so perfect, I don't care who you are.