What is a similar game to FFIX (doesnt have to be FF)??

[Crossblades]

FFIX is a throw back to the feel of the first six, particularly 1, 3 and 5.

So, play those!

And IV

Well, the only non-FF game I can think of that is similar to IX is Tales of the Abyss. I suggest giving that one a try. In fact, give all the Tales games a try.