Well trout, I didn't expect that xD I also got my "nah it's not that one" guess right, oh man xD

How about this...

Not the first hands to hold me
Not bound by blood or creed
But through me he will join
Our blessed Fraternity

Okay so I'm not looking for the hands, I'm looking for the me. Might seem hard (probably doesn't ) but there are plenty of clues in there!

Oh and let's keep it going; no reason no response!