I think i have a bigger issue with people deciding to have unprotected sex out of wedlock while still admitting to your face that they don't want and can't handle kids. I think it comes with the territory, that if you're boning you should accept the biological fact that it's there to make babies.

As long as you responsibly bone with the acceptance that you could produce, and therefore need to properly care for a kid, kudos to you.

Probably doesn't help I'm in the army though. I've seen more one year marriages than one night stands in the last 5 years.