When I was in a relationship it was about 50-50 where we stayed over, but for flings or new beginnings I definitely prefer bringing them over here. That way I can just go to sleep immediately after they leave or don't leave, and all my clothes are here. Also, I work as a sleeping nightwatchmanperson, so I have to stay in my room every other week. Thankfully, I'm free to do whatever I want when I'm on duty.

If there's a fling I don't want to give any information to, like name, address, phone number or anything, then I obviously prefer their place so they don't know where I live. I only did that once though, and I'm glad I didn't give up more information than I did.