Knew what?
Only one of my best friends from elementary (k-5 grade school) school... he was gay I think that year, and the next... then after one summer was no longer gay, and liked guy things again..? Think he was confused and pressured by the crowed he ran with then, or something. Not sure... When we were younger it wasn't as understanding a time as now... He socially destroyed himself because of the influence of others... Being a social hit isn't the biggest deal, for sure. I always ask gays I meet if they're 'sure'. Which is probably rude as trout.
Anyways, freedom of choice in mates is one of the rights I signed my life over to the military to fight for. So if you're gay, you have my full support... just know this, and be patient with me if I say some "homosexual" insensitive things. Its just a lifestyle that I don't understand, and have trouble trying to grasp at times. Women are such beautiful goddamn beings... The subject loses me is all. Anyways, rambling as always. Cluttered thoughts.etc.
See? So kinda rude, no? Unnintentional. The way I was raised doesn't help me at all with understanding either. Pretty sure my dear mother, a sweet little white lady doesn't seem to like gays very much...
Anyways, smurf it. Pursuit of happiness. If two (wo)men being together makes them happy, it shouldn't be a bother to anyone else. Who the smurf am I to cause a ruckus about it? You (homosexuals on both sides) have my support. I just may never know how to express it anytime soon. Im signing out of this thread before I kill it/send it in a bitter direction. Sorry to distract from the original topic.
my friend told me he was gay a while back and i was legitimately shocked
he'd been so afraid of peoples reaction to it he was a perfect actor. shame it was tearing him apart but he's happy now. HOORAH
I am an ex-gay survivor. I never came out while I was gay though, fortunately.
I like Kung-Fu.
...what... how do you "survive" being gay? Gunshots and cancer can kill you. So those survivors actually survived something. Being gay cannot kill you, or even hurt you. It might cause other people to hurt you, to kill you, and you can survive those attempts. But one's sexual orientation is not at all detrimental to one's health any more than being left-handed. So while you might realize that you aren't gay, just as you might realize you aren't straight, it's not something you "survive." It's something you are. Or aren't. or a little of both.
why ask if they are sure? whenever i am not sure i enjoy the company of women i hit on one and bam! i know i like this. A LOT
Omg. Girls are fun, huh!?
I ask if they're sure because of that friend I had who was positive he was gay... but in the end was just young and confused (or is now old and confused). From my understanding its a genetic deal and not so much a 'choice', so it draws out in my head "are you sure?".
I didn't realize that the meds my doctor gives me can give me the herps.
Sharing needles can spread stds that spread through fluid swapping. There are zero reported cases of a person contracting an std from "drug use", as there is a zero percent chance of this happening .