Originally Posted by
fierytempest
Originally Posted by
Peegee
Originally Posted by
Kentarou
In all my 19 years I have never been in a relationship.
Someone date me.
I'm going to explain something that hopefully you won't do like everybody else and not listen:
don't chase girls. instead improve yourself.
in fact, your default action whenever in doubt is to better yourself.
TREAT EM MEAN, KEEP EM KEEN!
I half agree with this. You shouldn't chase girls because even if you do it casually, most of them register that as a sign of desperation. You can scare of a girl that already decided that she wants to sleep with you at least 573 times a night if you appear desperate in the slightest.
However, I don't think you should come off as a cold, unfeeling asshole. As cliche as this sounds, just be yourself. This isn't an after school special sort of thing either. Even if you eventually pull off dating someone because you weren't acting like yourself, the mask comes off eventually.
TL;DR Keep your eyes open, but don't act desperate. Let things flow naturally and good things will come to you.