I used to be really surprised by how many people went out of their way to be friends with me, with little to no effort on my part. The interesting part about this is that I now have a lot of friends who kinda chose me, but who are wildly different from me. People I might not have sought out if I was doing all the decision making.

I'm not super proactive about going out and making friends, but very receptive to other people's friendly gestures. It all amounts to the fact that I am pretty lazy.