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    I get rather moody, but rarely do I actually yell at someone or whatever. A lot of my negative feelings stemming from such things tend to stay with me, but I am known for saying very self destructive things as a means to vent. Some of the things I say end up bothering people. However, I view doing what I do a better alternative that hitting something, throwing a tantrum or yelling at people.

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    I don't really show it. I might occassionally snap at people or give them the evil eyes but generally I just get on with it. Worst comes to worst I might vent at a friend.

    If I'm having a bad day because I'm upset with people, I do something that might sound really loony. I'm not afraid of confronting people, but no one wants to do that and create problems all the time. So, if I'm really mad or sad because of what someone has done, I'll go off by myself and just have a conversation as if they were there. Generally, it's people I know well enough to know how they'll respond, and so I just tell "them" everything I would want to say to them. I'm able to get those things off of my chest. And, on the plus side, if I have to later confront them, I usually have it well in my head what I want to say.
    I do that too, I end up having arguments with myself. All under my breath of course. I did it all the time when I lived with my mother - we really didn't get along.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Shorty View Post
    When I do have a bad day, the little things that people do for me seem a lot nicer/more significant and meaningful than they probably are.
    I totally agree with this but I still appreciate it. Seriously, when someone notices I'm having a bad day and does something nice for me, I'm always more appreciative of the fact that they did something for me rather than what it was they actually did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yar View Post
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    When I do have a bad day, the little things that people do for me seem a lot nicer/more significant and meaningful than they probably are.
    I totally agree with this but I still appreciate it. Seriously, when someone notices I'm having a bad day and does something nice for me, I'm always more appreciative of the fact that they did something for me rather than what it was they actually did.
    Argh. Sometimes when I'm having a bad day, I just want to revel in it. But my family knows me, and all they really have to do is call my grandma, because I just can't stay mad/sad/whatever when she's around. It makes me so mad when I'm trying my damnedest to be a hard-ass and she hugs me and says something utterly ridiculous.

    It's like when you've been arguing with your best friend or a loved one, I mean really pissed-off arguing, but then something happens or someone says something and you're both trying to hold back smiles but you just can't and when you finally let go all the negative trout that came before that moment just gets blown away.

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    Trying to get better at not arguing with people over really unimportant stuff when I'm having a bad day. So these days I'll just keep my trap shut in order to avoid saying anything I might regret.

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    I try to stay quiet and not say whats bothering me because i can be a bitter b**** when im angry. Then i just think about other things to let it go and then im fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chionos View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Yar View Post
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    When I do have a bad day, the little things that people do for me seem a lot nicer/more significant and meaningful than they probably are.
    I totally agree with this but I still appreciate it. Seriously, when someone notices I'm having a bad day and does something nice for me, I'm always more appreciative of the fact that they did something for me rather than what it was they actually did.
    Argh. Sometimes when I'm having a bad day, I just want to revel in it. But my family knows me, and all they really have to do is call my grandma, because I just can't stay mad/sad/whatever when she's around. It makes me so mad when I'm trying my damnedest to be a hard-ass and she hugs me and says something utterly ridiculous.

    It's like when you've been arguing with your best friend or a loved one, I mean really pissed-off arguing, but then something happens or someone says something and you're both trying to hold back smiles but you just can't and when you finally let go all the negative trout that came before that moment just gets blown away.
    This allllways happens with my sister. I want to just knock her lights out but she'll make this stupid face and laugh and I'll be like NO SHUT UP I'M NOT DONE HATING YOUR GUTS but then I end up laughing too.

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    I usually keep to myself and snap at those who try to talk to me. Sometimes I release those ugly emotions by crying and/or drinking. Then I tweet or blog about how much I hate the world.

    On a lighter note, I also shoot my Nerf gun at different parts of my room... with targets in mind, of course.

    ... I guess I do a lot when I have a bad day. Oh well, distractions are good...

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    I don't really have bad days. More like bad hours. I'm fine up to a certain point. Then something stupid happens. I sulk like an infant and then snap like a rottweiler at someone who happens to mention something that even slightly irritates me. I usually apologize fairly quickly for this, but it's not easily forgiven.
    Jack: How do you know?

    Will: It's more of a feeling really.

    Jack: Well, that's not scientific. Feeling isn't knowing. Feeling is believing. If you believe it, you can't know because there's no knowing what you believe. Then again, no one should believe what they know either. Once you know anything that anything becomes unbelievable if only by virtue of the fact you now... know it. You know?

    Will: No.

    If Demolition Man were remade today

    Huxley: What's wrong? You broke contact.
    Spartan: Contact? I didn't even touch you.
    Huxley: Don't you want to make love?
    Spartan: Is that what you call this? Why don't we just do it the old-fashioned way?
    Huxley: NO!
    Spartan: Whoa! Okay, calm down.
    Huxley: Don't tell me to calm down!
    Spartan: What's gotten into you? 'Cause it sure as hell wasn't me.
    Huxley: Physical relations in the way of intercourse are no longer acceptable John Spartan.
    Spartan: What? Why the hell not?
    Huxley: It's the law, John. And for your information, the very idea that you suggested it makes me feel personally violated.
    Spartan: Wait a minute... violated? Huxley what the hell are you accusing me of here?
    Huxley: You need to leave, John.
    Spartan: But Huxley.
    Huxley: Get out!
    Moments later Spartan is arrested for "violating" Huxley.

    By the way, that's called satire. Get over it.

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    It depends on what i'm feeling, who caused it, what they did to cause it, and who's around.

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    Today has been pretty grim; I got up at 6am in order to get a couple of hours of revision in before a 3 hour criminology exam. Ive lived in the library for like a week and a half, not revising unfortunately, but with the a heap of essays for a different subject, wrote about 8,000 words in essays in total. I then found out I was in work in the evening when I thought I was finally gonna get a minute, and then this afternoon I found out that my work has gone into administration so I'm probably gonna lose my job.

    I've been pretty cheery though CAUSE IVE FINISHED ALL MY WORK... till lectures commence again on Monday.

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    Sounds terrible Zeldy. Hope the job pulls through.
    At least you're not slacking off or giving up. School work will pass, but not going 100% tends to lead to regret and more bad days.

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    When I'm having a bad day, I do something nice for myself. Because I love me. :<3: :<3: :<3: :<3:

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    I generally just don't talk as much and otherwise act normally. I don't like taking my problems out on everyone else who isn't involved. It's very, very rare for me to be in an obviously bad mood.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raistlin View Post
    I generally just don't talk as much and otherwise act normally. I don't like taking my problems out on everyone else who isn't involved. It's very, very rare for me to be in an obviously bad mood.
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