How do you know it would be a happy place? Racism could go on and nobody would complain, for example.

Quote Originally Posted by Shorty View Post
Many times I make changes because I need a new change of scenery or I just want something to just be different.
Disappointed at things staying the same?

Perhaps "all positive changes" was a bit poorly worded - "most positive changes" might be better. Certainly the more notable ones! For example, racism, sexism, homophobia... if people didn't complain about these things, if they weren't disappointed in the way things were, then the changes would never have come about. Basically, when someone is disappointed or complains, I don't see it as a terrible thing because I try to keep it in my head that this is that they are just wanting a positive change, and positive change isn't a bad thing to want.