One of my bridesmaid for my wedding was a smurfing all star, she was extremely helpful throughout the whole process, always calling to check up on me and make sure the planning wasn't driving me nuts, and she custom ordered a bracelet for me to wear on the wedding day which is like, the sweetest thing ever. Overall, being a really good friend to me.

So as a thank you, I emailed her to let her know that I would cover her expenses if she wanted to get a makeup artist to do her makeup on the day. Everyone else, including myself, was going to do our own makeup but this this bridesmaid kind of sucked with makeup and I knew she wanted a professional to help her out. I accidentally included another bridesmaid in the email and she kind of threw a fit about the fact that I was being selective about covering the makeup costs.

It was drama for a few days.

It wasn't a "secret" but it definitely wasn't something I wanted to advertise, precisely for the drama I knew it might cause. And it was my own smurfup.

Other than that, even though I like to gossip, but I'm generally good about know what I can and can't share.