o.o;;;;; Y'all? really? You get mad about that? I mean, I always say "ma'am" and "sir" when talking to guests if I'm talking to them individually, but as a group, I -will- say "Y'all". I honestly feel the opposite when it comes to that, although there -is- a fine line between being too friendly & just right. Y'all is a very southern thing, though, so almost anywhere you go down here, you're going to hear that. It's not meant as disrespect, it just means that we want you to feel welcome.

lol this is so weird. I also have absolutely no problem with people going to get whatever they want out of my kitchen. If they're hungry, they can go find something to eat. I don't mind people being in my bedroom when it's clean, either, but typically, no one I know would go in there uninvited. Or eat my food uninvited. But they know when they come over that whatever I have cooked or have for snacks, they're more than welcome to anything. *Shrug* I guess it's a southern thing? IDK.