Why?

[blackmage_nuke]

I think it really was just so you would think its a tough old man so as to surpise you when she took of her motorbike helmet and whips her hair in the wind.

Also possibly its the same as the rule about no big goodbyes. They try to defamiliarise themselves with the summoners so they wont be so sad as to not want to leave.

Also summoner is a title of great honour so lowborn scum should not refer to her by name. STAY AWAY FROM THE SUMMONER.