Very fair. As to your previous point yeah it makes people of the future seem pretty detached, but as a kid I also thought TNG made me feel like the future was a world without toilets or (much) blood or sweat etc. - definitely a big impact on me
I thoroughly enjoyed Into Darkness except (SPOILER)OG Spock and the KHAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNN yell.
Though I knew the latter had to happen