Facebook is fine. So long as you never post, send messages or share links. It works for me.
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I created a new facebook when I left my ex for personal reasons. I tried really hard with my new account to be more selective with the people I add... but one by one people send my friend requests (mostly work colleagues) and I don't want to be rude and not add them when I have added another.... LOL
I don't like having "friends" on facebook I don't really consider friends.
What I do these days is set up "custom" posts for sharing things with peoples I actually care about, and pretty much ignore the rest (hopefully they will never know!) :3
Now you know why I don't have my real last name or birth date on my profile and it's completely private except for friends. I didn't wanna be found.
.... I have a second account though 'cuz my dad guilt tripped me into "making one" (*dies*) .. That fool never even posts anything anymore. I'm mad now. lol
I just put family I don't want stalking me on a restricted list. They think they have access to my stuff and that's enough to keep them from guilt tripping me about it![]()
Lolol jealous girlfriends...ex girlfriends... monitor mine like a hawk.
I would imagine they would because you have multiple girlfriends apparently.
Only one time did it ever cause a problem and I rectified it quickly. Basically one of my family members for some reason said I posted all my personal info from my passport on FB even though it was literally just the cover of the passport. She went and told my mom and my mom was like "omg no what are doing" and I had to be all "chill b".
I deleted that family member because of that and because I sent her a sweet message before all that happened and she read it but never responded. smurfing bitch. I'm cool enough with all my other family members on my feed and it's mostly just cousins and aunts who are fairly young, so they're cool.
My mom is on my FB but she just has it to save my pictures so that she can print them out and put them around her house and to check her horoscope.
I have an informant I'm aware of who shows my dad things too that I post but I could a smurf less because I don't post anything ridiculous. I don't make drama on my FB so hence why it's drama less.![]()
I learned about Facebook's "acquaintance" and "restricted" lists just a few days ago, and it's wonderful. There's a lot on Facebook I do like seeing, but there have been a few occasions where people have posted things that really change how I view them. For example, my dad and I talk far less than we did before I found out he's a massive bigot, and I just plain feel uncomfortable around his brother, who was always the "fun uncle" growing up.
I learned very recently to ignore people who will cause drama on OTHER peoples pages.
I typically don't have too much of an issue. And if people or family, like I mentioned earlier, get upset, I usually just ignore it. Unless they throw fits outside of facebook and cause my life to be troubled.