I am a planner. Plans being left to the last minute stress me out like no ones's business. I need to know what's happening, when it's happening, and how it's happening almost immediately after the plans are made.

Like "Let's get together this week"
Okay, when? Saturday, Sunday? Morning, afternoon? What time? Where are we meeting? How long are we expecting this to last?

It drives me crazy the way sharky and his family plan stuff because they leave things to the last minute and even switch plans around and I can literally feel the stress building.

"Oh there's going to be a family dinner this weekend?"
"When?"
"I don't know, I'll find out"
Waits until day before to tell me
"Where?"
"I dunno, I'll found out"
WE HAVE TO GO TOMORROW ARE YOU KIDDING ME WITH THIS

I'm trying to be more flexible with his plans that I'm not involved in, but when I am involved I want to know what's going on right away. You know there's a dinner, you should know when and where it is or don't plan the dinner until you figure it out is my feelings on it