Originally Posted by
Big Ogre Umaro
The moral of the story is: don't impose your narrow experience onto others, and also listen to the perspective of others even if you think you disagree with what they have to say. Every opinion, no matter how "wrong" is important to understanding another person, and should be treated seriously if you can. Why did that person like Malificent? It appears that they connected to something in the movie that OP couldn't get to, something that spoke to their lived experience. Maybe they didn't express it the wrong way, but with the way OP is dismissing their arguments, it's no wonder that nothing was communicated!
Listen. Learn. Your fellow human is a treasure trove of thoughts and ideas, even if they're hard to get to at first.
I'm gonna turn thirty in a couple months. I'm just gonna get more preachy as time goes on.