In no particular order:

1. Find someone to love and have it actually work out.
2. Ph.D.
3. Travel: 50 states, New Zealand, Greece, Ireland, visit the great libraries of the world, see some of the great waterfalls of the world (waterfall lovemaking is on another list).
4. Learn to cook like a pro.
5. Write something worth reading.
6. Help people live better lives.
7. Write something worth writing.

Sephex, I hear you. I think there's a balance, though, between having no goals at all and having goals that define your life. Having or not having goals shouldn't define you, and certainly, drifting with the tides works for some people, but the ideal, for me anyway, is to set goals AND be able to roll with the punches, go with the flow, no matter what happens. You can embrace both.