Whoa, people are actually confessing crushes on these things? That's cool and all, but I thought it was more of a playful suggestion. I've been complimenting people and/or sharing a good memory I have of them. Not to say there is a wrong way to send these messages, but I swear everyone on this site is dating someone from this site, off this site, or is just plain married. And those of you who aren't hooked up don't seem to be bothered by that fact. Basically I am trying to convey my surprise at that fact rather than condemning it.