I'm assuming by "non-exploitative" you mean "covers up legs, covers up boobs, doesn't wear skintight gear and is generally a sweet person"? And are using their default attire, not including fanart, etc.
In which case (do forgive me if some of them are actually poor role models, I haven't played all games), at least surely some of these must apply: White Mage, Refia, Porom, Leonora, Calca, Brina, Lenna, Faris, Krile, Aeris, the female Turks, Quistis, Freya, Yuna (FFX), various FFXI characters, Penelo, Lightning, Agrias.
EDIT: As for "Is it right for me to shame that culture for having different gender standards than my own?" - reword that to "Is it right for me to shame that culture for having gender discrimination?" and the answer is yes, because no person should be discriminated against because of their gender without a damned good reason (eg. sporting events, bathrooms, that kind of thing - and even then you could argue further on whether it's appropriate).




