It all depends on whom I'm talking to really. I'm not exactly about to go at my autistic niece with the same level of sarcasm and wit I use with my sisters other kids when trying to get them doing stuff. Same with the littlest of them, they simply won't understand it and get upset.

Then there's work settings where I can't really call someone trout at their job. I try and be helpful there, if they're doing badly I offer suggestions and advice on how I'd improve the situation if I could. Some people appreciate it others don't but it's on offer. I've been in my post a year now and some of the resourcers I work along side haven't so I give them the benefit of experience or suggest why we'd want something done the way we do.

With my best mates? Well they're all smurfing tossers anyhow! So of course my idea of encouragement with them and from them is "smurfs sake, how smurfing trout are you? God damn it you asswipe!"