No, I'm not implying that people who play this game are friendless anti-social super nerds. Quite the opposite! I'm the one without friends...
I was wondering if you feel that playing Final Fantasy XIV, or any MMORPG in general, is a muted experience if you go in as a solo player. I have tried to get into a number of MMORPGs over the years. I go in with high expectations of spending a lot of time having fun, and creating bonds with people. Sadly, I've found that everything is very transient, in terms of developing social ties with anyone in games. They seem next to no existent.
In the end, I feel like I am playing a graphical spreadsheet balancer. It's all numbers and statistics on a panel, which all kind of feels rather meaningless. For people who are currently playing, and have managed to stick with it over a prolonged period of time; what has ensnared you to commit to the game long term? Do you have a collective that you play with regularly to make the experience more human. For is it simply a love of addition?
I'd really like to invest in the game - but I find myself burnt out whenever I solo myself to level 21, and looking at that little cute carbuncle fight has passed its original novelty. I mean, you should never force yourself to like something if you intrinsically can't find any pleasure in it. I like to think of myself as exercising open-mindedness, and I just can't work out why XIV seems so popular, yet I lack the resolve to actually stick around after I've keypressed 1 and 2 on countless evil fungi.
This is not a criticism of the game. I don't intend to be bashing it. I'm more looking for enlightenment on the best way people enjoy it. Is it simply a lack of a social clique?