Just an update btw.

How do you define your sexual and/or romantic orientation?

If I had to pick a term, I'd be (mostly) Aromantic Pansexual but I despise using those terms in a casual conversation so I just say I'm bisexual and not super interested in dating. I tend to form platonic relationships with sexual overtones in stead of romantic ones and gender isn't a factor for me. I appreciate aesthetic looks in a person and it will likely increase my initial sexual interest in a person but it's not a given for me to be attracted to them.