With the exception of a few traits in both sexes that really rev my engine when combined, I'm generally not interested in sex until I have feelings for someone.

Its also pretty hard for me to catch feelings. I haven't had recognizable, non-fleeting feelings for anyone for a few years now.

But when I do start to have feelings it's almost exclusively towards men.

I just have a very low sexual appetite.

Which has generally meant I make partners really unhappy.

Yaaaaaaaay.